तेरी बाते

तू अब पहले के जैसी सताती नहीं है,
तेरी बाते अब याद आती नहीं है|

वो नन्ही सी आखे, वो नाज़ुक सी बाते,
वो बेमानी शर्तो में उलझी सी राते,
वो बारिश की बुदो की प्यारी सी उलझन,
वो सड़को के गड्दो की अनचाही अड़चन,
अब वो बारिश की बुदे बिंगाती नहीं है,
तेरी बाते अब याद आती नहीं है|

वो परेशां होठो से कुछ बदबदाना,
वो खाम्ख्वा बिना बात के खिलखिलाना,
वो हर बात पर बेमतलब से परदे,
वो हर बात को न जाने क्यों मुझसे छुपाना,
तू अब भी मुझे कुछ बताती नहीं है,
पर तेरी बाते अब याद आती नहीं है|

वो अनचाही बातो के तेरे पुलिंदे,
वो फिर उनको सुलझा कर मुझको समझाना,
उलझा न जाने कब वो बातो का बाना,
तुम सच कहती थी की बातो को बोझ न बनाना,
तेरी उलझी बाते मुझसे अब भी सुलझ पाती नहीं है,
पर अब वो तेरी बाते याद आती नहीं है|

"Aliens" I Have an Idea

As soon as NASA released a photograph showing a murky shadow / rock/ living creature/ just a cloud of dust, we all are again engaged in our old favorite topic existence of life apart from our planet or so called existence of Aliens. I am quite fascinated with this concept just like Hollywood. Sometimes this makes me much tense because if I trace back, I remember many creatures whose behavior is quite unseasoned to me and what would happen if some more will add to it if Mr. NASA become successful in Alien search. Whatever the consequences, I find Alien concept really cool but Mr. NASA is deceiving me from a long time. What to do?
I got an idea … why not consider them (idiosyncratic creatures around me) as Alien and start my thesis on them instead of digging on the inputs provided by someone else which I can’t verify or simply can’t understand at all. Going forward with this thought, I started to prepare a list of living creatures belong to my social lab whose behavior staggered me a lot and could easily qualify for my Alien list.
So as you can see that now I have pointed out some Aliens for research so I am in better position then Mr. NASA. You can also try this and if you like the concept, you can write me back saying “What an Idea”.
Keep looking this space to get my thesis findings if their would be any :) and more interesting/irritating ideas like this :)

A Dinner Contention

Rashmi: Call her. You cant live without her, she is already your life..
Karan: Why to bother buddy there are many pretty cheeks around, there is nothing called part of life .. When one bus gone it is a better idea to catch another bus instead of running behind the same.
Rashmi: That is one of the differences between Bus and human. If you miss one bus there is a possibility to find another bus of similar kind and of similar route but if you miss one person you can never find a person similar.
Karan: But no one is clear before about what kind of person he or she want to be with.. so why there is a compulsion to go for same person. You might find a better person if you look around. In life you don’t need to stick to a person. Life should be person independent, if you want to enjoy it.
Rashmi: Our life is always a person centric life. If you change people related to you so frequently very soon you find yourself alone. A relationship requires effort and time. It must be tested in difficult circumstances and if after such a effort you get one nice mate then you should respect her more then anything and shouldn’t let her go like this.
Karan: Life is not too short man, you can still go ahead to put more effort. Effort always pays off. Intelligent person knows that more efforts always lead you towards better results. If you are deprived by something in you life, then go ahead… put more effort and get. It’s simple and straight.
Rashmi: Emotions are not more not less and you can’t always force someone to be a part of ur life. Sometime you can not do anything more then just wait and pray. Efforts can maintain a relationship but effort can’t establish a new relationship. Love is not manipulation its feeling and you can’t manipulate your feelings. If you are manipulating your feeling then you are not deceiving anyone else but yourself. It’s simple and straight but you need to listen your heart.

if ( I shouted ) {
That’s enough crapJ. Let’s have dinner and do something productive rather then patching someone’s physically challenged or underdeveloped relationship. Don’t you think we can do some better things?
All agreed in unison.
}
else if ( I say “Restaurant is getting closed. Lets go home” ){
Rashmi: You guys cant understand.. ohh ya its late, lets go back.
Karan: Its looks like you have all the rights received to understand love and relationship.. ohh its really late.
}
else {
Debate goes on and on and on… and I am wondering.. why are we still not clear about a topic which we are discussing from the beginning of humans evolution.
}

finally{
Comments invited. :)
}

I Proud To Be An Indian

Indian economy is moving with a very awesome rate. We are second fastest growing economy. These facts always make me think that what are the reasons which differentiate us from rest of world and responsible for this fast development? Today morning while I was driving on my way to office found few important properties of Indians people which I suppose could be reason. Let me share few those points which I observed.

1. While I was just on road I heard a very *nice sound PoooOOOooo( * -- Could make irritating effect on few person). I looked behind a handsome guy was the source. He was keep blowing horn even there was no space to pass by. This incident has given me the reason one.
Conclusion: We Indians always keep pushing others even if this irritates others sometimes but we simply don’t mind. This is the only reason I could think why we are so much successful in adverse conditions.

2. In my way a traffic signal came. I stopped my bike before zebra line where according to rule we should. I observed one vehicle stopped a bit ahead of me and the other one a little bit more then him. I observed that they were not dependent of signal they were constantly seeking for opportunity to cross it whenever possible and many did that successfully. Amazing effort I must say.
Conclusion: We Indians are not depended on bookish philosophy to cross hurdles of life. We are always looking for opportunities and try to grab it before anyone else. One more thing we always believe in being one step ahead of our peers ( Jindigi me ek kadam aage)

3. On the way I have seen one person was moving very fast must be somewhere around 90-95 kph even there was not space to drive that fast. He was using empty space between two vehicles and driving in zigzag fashion. That really amazed me.
Conclusions: We Indian know some really specials method to concur resource crunch and maintain a higher speed very much comparable to other countries which spends billions to achieve this.

4. I encountered lots of pop up type of hurdles in my ride which never let me loose my concentration thorugh out my ride.. like someone jumped on road from divider or someone turned their vehicle without giving indicator.
Conclusions: We Indians always forces fellow to give his 100% output whatever he does by putting his life at stake. This life threats triggered productivity really contributing a lot in our development.

So these are few observation of my morning ride. I hope you agree with it and help in making our country more prosperous and developed.Let me know if you also have any such observations. I am really proud to be an Indian. What about you.

Indecent Justification

As soon I got up today morning my friend has given me morning news paper. Wow what a start of the day. This is definitely going to be a gr8 day, I murmured to me. My grand mom always says “beta u do gud to others.. Sooner or later they will pay back”. I thought now whatever good work I have done is paying me back. Ok I agree may be I m giving more importance to this event.. may be he was not in mood of reading it and don’t find any other suitable place then banging on my head, having thought that I started reading it.
The first news I have seen provoked me to write this. That article was clearly an example of misrepresentation of facts. Let me tell you what was there…
The article was based on a survey report which suggested that 40% women in India still find domestic violence justified. Amongst them 35% justified brutal beating by their husbands for the cause of family respect, children responsibilities and blah blah blah…
They represented this article in such way that even after 60 years of independence and so called lots of women revolution activities and laws still our women are suppressed. Is it correct? I don’t agree.
Statistics suggest that in last 10 years number of male counterparts who are become pray of this domestic violence has been increased by two folds. Women are increasingly become more capable and by using or so called misusing IPC laws (which are made 40-50 years ago by considering circumstance of those times which are absolutely changed now) to humiliate their male counterparts.
Take my example I facing this domestic violence from childhood. My both elder sisters are still slapping me for any of the hell cause and when I ask my mother to intervene and sort out the matter she also slap me and tell to abide whatever my sister says. Seeeee does this media ever did any survey for how much males justify house violence. I m sure the answer will be none.
The interesting fact is if the women herself are justifying it then what is the issue. This clearly shows that they are very well aware about +ve and –ve aspect of domestic violence and know this is only way they can live a good life. Still this media is tagging Indian women less aware and idiot who accepts domestic violence rationally. The fact is they are misguiding women and taking them against their male counterparts who are always trying to help them in taking the right path even by brutal beating (Wooow). I think this women organizations should handle these media organizations in better way. Hey Indian women this survey report have more glorified your image in my eyes.
Disclaimer: All characters in this story are not fictional. Any resemblance with any living or dead is not purely coincidental but definitely facts and figure are correctly misrepresented to make it more interesting for readers specially women readers. I have also given some idiotic justifications to prove my point (Forgive me pls) but not as idiotic as women have justified domestic violence.
So please in any circumstances don’t tolerate domestic violence or if you are tolerating (ur wish, u r free) at least don’t justify it.